Life changing adventures from Tanzania – Taylor Mahar

I happened to be browsing through a travel magazine and came upon a website that has a connection with MAD. What started as a general inquiry into a possible trip to Africa became an unforgettable journey that has left part of my heart and soul in Tanzania.

I first came last year, really not knowing what to expect. Now my second trip is coming to a close and I can’t believe I have to say goodbye to these amazing kids again. A smile from Upendo and Gift, a hug from Peter, a mischievous grin from Jonasi, a shy look around the corner from Joseph, a sarcastic joke from Eliona, a belly laugh from Christina….these memories will stay with me always. The spirits and personalities of these children are so inspiring. It is incredible what they have all been through in their lives, and how they have unconditional love for all of the volunteers that visit. They have no expectations, no judgement, no bitterness, no anger or resentment. If only we could all be a little bit more like the MAD kids.

So here I am, about to leave another part of my heart and soul in Tanzania. I hope to be back soon; not to pick up any of the pieces I’ve left here, but to leave more behind.

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My first time, but definitely not my last

I heard about Make A Difference through one of my very good friends, Taylor Mahar.  Taylor told me about all the beautiful things she saw, the wonderful work being done here by MAD and the amazing children she met. When she told me that she was planning to return, I knew that I had to make the trip and experience it all for myself. I don’t think I could have prepared to be moved so deeply by these children and their stories. They are such warm and loving little kids. Upendo with her beautiful smile, Elliona with his unconditional friendship and Peter with his incredible hugs have given Kilimanjaro Kids Care a special place in my heart. I have only just begun to get to know these kids and I want to get to know more of them. So I promise to write whenever I can and I promise that I will be back to see them again.

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Come Thirsty, Ready to Share, Leave Inspired! – Kelly McCoy

“Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.”
- Chief Seattle

2 years ago, I was blessed with the opportunity to come to Moshi, Tanzania and meet Theresa Grant and the children she cares for through Make A Difference Now. When I think of my visits, I think fondly of the blessing that I bring home. It is simple , it is LOVE.

A simple connection that drives one human being to be in service of another.

Giving 22 children the opportunity to have a good education, with the prospects of living a healthy and productive life, is the main objective of the Make a Difference Now organization.

Getting the opportunity to spend a week or two to work with the kids one on one, to exchange culture, to learn, and to teach is an enriching experience. And I am blessed to call Theresa, Pina, Emannuel, and the entire MAD team, my friends and family!

Each child is a unique individual, their resiliency and perseverance is amazing. Their eagerness to learn is motivating. Their appreciation of the smallest gesture is a continual motivator.

Becoming a volunteer with Make A Difference Now, and getting to know Theresa, has been an enriching experience in my life. I went into it not knowing what to expect, and walk away each time more enriched and more inspired. It is simple, all lives are equal regardless of race, religion, sex, age or nationality.

We are all one. The best way to appreciate this is to connect with others. And to remove oneself from one’s comfort zone. There are many opportunities to volunteer with MAD. Stay a week, stay a year. Be sure to check out http://www.makeadifference.org for upcoming opportunities. There is a great University Tour and Safari upcoming in June. And if you are of the active sort, there are amazing opportunities to fund raise by trekking up Mount Kilimanjaro!

Whatever you do, come thirsty! Thirsty to learn, eager to exchange, and leave inspired.

Inspired to do more things that can make a difference to another being’s life when you return home.

“Sow an act, reap a habit; Sow a habit, reap a character; Sow a character, reap a destiny.” -G. D. Boardman

See the Kilimanjaro Kids say thank you at MAD’s YouTube channel here: http://youtu.be/JlgfHTMQ-r0

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Experience and Insights From Tanzania – Leslie Prevish

In four decades of life, I’ve been fortunate to visit many countries and learn first-hand about other cultures. When I arrived in Tanzania last September, I wondered what effect volunteering would have on myself and others here in Tanzania. As I finish up my five months, I know the experiences I’ve gained will help me both personally, and professionally. I’ve outlined some popular questions, and the answers and clarity I now have…

Will you come back the same person?

Living in the moment here is a necessity. I’ve learned you also need to be flexible and understand that change happens on a whole different timeline. I think I’ve become more tolerant of situations I have no control over, such as electricity, water, internet and the laid-back “Tanzanian time”!

My time in Tanzania has made me appreciate the basics in life, sift through my “needs vs. wants,” and appreciate simple beauty. Each day more colored flowers appear on the trees here…purple, blue, orange and now yellow. It’s winter back home in Pennsylvania. I am grinning as I think about how sparkly, yet serene, the evergreens will be the morning after a snowfall. I can’t wait to make snow angels with my niece and nephew!

What will you miss most?

As I am packing to return to the States, I keep shedding tears on what—and WHO—I’ll miss. The children at the orphanage are such characters! It was energizing to watch their young eyes light up as they learned to ride horses. I did a Kilimanjaro fundraising climb and my friends and family donated $7200, which will provide sport and health programs for the entire year! When I saw photos of the children’s desperate situations before MAD, I realized how life-changing this organization really is, and how much I want to help improve their lives.

I’ll also miss…Theresa, who I truly admire and am blessed to call a friend…Pina at the MAD Guest House, singing and smiling all day long (her chapatti is delicious!)…and the strong community here, available 24/7, to lean on for support. They have been so welcoming to open their doors for holiday dinners and inspiring conversations.

What will you do when you come back?

I’m excited to start the next phase of my life, filled to the brim with experiences and ideas. As I start my business as a marketing consultant, I know I’ll be working with people of different backgrounds. My Tanzanian time has shown me how to celebrate differences and use them as an opportunity to foster new ideas. Also, nothing goes to waste here. After five months of conserving resources, I should be able to do more with limited time and money, which will help me and my clients!

Would you encourage others to do it?

YES! I’ve learned so much I wish I had done it sooner! I remember an interview a few years ago when I was asked, “describe a time when you had a challenge with someone and how you improved communications.”

Five months in Tanzania has stressed the importance of respectful and clear communication. You can’t assume someone understand you, it’s important to ask for clarify and keep an eye out for non-verbal cues. This has proved helpful for communicating with locals, as well as expats from many nations.

I’d also encourage people to come for the unique experiences, like the safari tours, where elephants and zebras pass within feet of your vehicle! The waterfalls, Chagga caves and coffee tour are must-sees as well. And I’d tell them to make sure to get to the Indian Ocean to watch the waves roll in while writing memories in a journal about the amazing experiences.Les.Peter

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Refections on a 6-Month Life Changing Internship in Africa

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Being able to spend such a long and rewarding time with the children provided me with a different perspective that I think many short term volunteers do not get to experience. I was very fortunate for this opportunity, and know that there are not too many people who can say they were given the chance that I was. I will miss the good times I shared with the kids at Kilimanjaro Kids Care.

One of the most important things that I learned in Tanzania was the general structure and operations of a non-profit organization.I appreciate everything that Make a Difference has made possible for me and the once in a lifetime opportunity. I will miss the kids very much and all of the volunteers that I met during my time there. I will of course miss Theresa as well, she is a wonderful woman with an incredible vision and has done a terrific job creating this program. I look forward to any help that I can provide to the organization in the future and know that the kids will go on to do great things and become outstanding adults in their community.

- Kyle Taylor,

Make A Difference Marketing Communications Intern

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I will miss Moshi!

Unfortunately, my time here has been very short … but, I must say that it has been one of the sweetest times of my life!  The people here–from Theresa and the MAD staff, to the volunteers, to the community and, of course, to the kids–are amongst the most incredible people I have ever encountered!

My week at the guest house was the start of a three-week long stay for me in Tanzania.  (I will be moving onto safari in Arusha, and the Serengeti and Tarangire; and, I will be staying in Zanzibar for the final week of my trip.)  I am so grateful that my Tanzanian journey began here!  I feel that I probably gained the best and most “authentic” understanding of the people and community here in Tanzania by beginning my stay in Moshi.

Thanks to Theresa, Emanuel, Pina, Frank and my fellow volunteer Jonnie, I have learned many kiswahili words to help me feel as if I am at least a small part of the community here, which I know will carry me a bit for my entire stay in Africa, I have learned so much about the culture (everyone is probably getting tired of my millions of questions) ;) … and, I have come to love the kindness of the people, the depth of their hearts and souls, and the simplicity of their lifestyles.  It warms my heart every single time I greet a beautiful woman or gentleman with a “Habari Yako?!” and a huge smile greets me back with a “Nzuri!” or “Salama;” or, especially when I give a big “Ham jambo!!” to the kids and they all light up and flash big smiles to go along with their emphatic waves. :)

I am very sad to be leaving this beautiful place.  I know I have the safari to look forward to next; but, the comfort of Moshi is something I am already beginning to miss.

My favorite memories will be of jumping off the cliffs at the waterfall in the Chugga village with Jonnie (and Alex–hee hee); swimming with Jonnie and Emanuel–Emanuel was such a sport to humor us and get in the water ;) ; getting girl-time in with Jonnie :) ; listening to Emanuel tell us how strong he is–like Tarzan … or maybe even like his namesake, Jesus ;) ; of course, playing with the kids at the hot springs–feeling so content and so in love with the kids and their huge smiles and belly laughs as they splashed around and had so much fun with one another; dancing and being silly with Christina; watching Benny breakdance and smile so wholeheartedly; getting the best and biggest hugs, and most brilliant smiles, from Gifty; observing how wise and at peace Mwenda, Upendo and Innocent always seemed to be; watching Peter go nuts-o ;) ; working on math with Exuper, while he turned to me and smiled, questioningly, everytime he tried a new way of working out a problem, but wasn’t really sure if he knew what the heck he was doing ;) ; happening upon the bright beautiful eyes of Elliona and Juma looking up at me; absolutely just cracking up everytime I looked at Christopher, and having him give me back a half-all-knowing and half-completely-unknowing massive smile in response; watching Joseph engage with the other kids with such enthusiasm; receiving such at-ease and maturing smiles from Jonasi and Shabani; and, of course, learning so much about the language and culture of the people, and about the intricacies of Moshi and beyond, from Theresa!

We are heading over to the orphanage–for my very last time (though I so hope to come back)–in a couple of hours.  I am so excited to celebrate the kids and the time I had here–with the children, Theresa, Jonnie, Emanuel (and maybe Frank?).  We plan to learn traditional dancing, carry things on our heads and just party!  I cannot wait … but I know it will be bitter-sweet, too.

Moshi–you will always reside in a special place in my soul, and you have forever overtaken a huge portion of my heart!  For this, I will ALWAYS be grateful!

Kahweri, Moshi!  Asante sana for EVERYTHING!

Upendo, Rebecca Lillig (San Diego, Calilfornia)

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Three Times and Counting (Francine Parling)

It’s been a month since I’ve returned from Tanzania and I have this owed blog post hanging over my head. Reading through the expressive and reflective entries from the other Summer 2012 MAD volunteers, I’ve been challenged with putting into words what both my volunteering and the Make a Difference Now organization means to me.

Here’s my attempt in crafting some sen(tences)se of my experience.

This is the third time I’ve been to Tanzania and all three times, it has involved Make a Difference Now. In 2010, to acknowledge our passage into what used to be considered middle-age (the big 4-0), my husband and I took the proverbial trip of a lifetime to Tanzania to hike Kilimanjaro. You can read more about that trip here: http://www.teachingtraveling.com/2011/08/28/francine-teaching-esl-in-the-u-s-and-travel-in-tanzania/

In a nutshell, we didn’t make the summit. Hiking Kilimanjaro isn’t a walk in the park; it’s WALKING UP A MOUNTAIN. The mountain is BIG. The mountain is HIGH. The mountain’s air is THIN. And I was woefully and embarrassingly UNDERPREPARED. Lessons were unequivocally LEARNED.

There is a Kiswahili proverb (courtesy of a Google search; please, Kiswahili speakers and readers, call me out if the translation is wrong or if this proverb is completely made up) that states: Kupotea njia ndiko kujua njia (to lose the way is to learn the way). I haven’t given up on my summit dream, but it’s not the compelling reason I’ve returned to Tanzania every year since then. Instead, it was my happenchance meeting with Theresa Grant, a visit to the primary school the children attend, and an afternoon spent at the orphanage with the MAD kids that absolutely rocked my world.

What has brought me back to Tanzania and to MAD these past two years—and hopefully again in 2013? In one word: people. It’s the passionate purpose of Theresa. It’s the twenty-two kids of Kilimanjaro Kids Care. It’s the high-spirited high school and college students with tremendous motivation and big dreams and big futures. It’s the young woman who has the courage and gumption to travel the world, alone, for 8 months. It’s the congeniality and generosity of the godmother introducing Tanzania to her goddaughter. It’s another volunteer’s research and excellent teaching that I was able to build on. It’s the pluck of a guy who had never traveled abroad and decided to move to East Africa for half a year. It’s the MAD staff who warmly welcome and look after the steady-stream of volunteers that make their way to Moshi town. It’s the people who listened and believed in my volunteering and gave to my MAD Milk Money fundraiser.

It’s the strangers briefly met along the way, too, like the bicyclist who “quit I.T.” and is cycling around the world (three years down and more to go). It’s the two university professors on two different continents who took the time to exchange emails with a random stranger who wanted to learn more about education and teacher training in Sub-Sahara Africa. And, it’s the man who believes that there is a cheaper and more efficient way to remove landmines from Africa’s war-ravaged fields and forests—rats.

It’s the people—with their faith, creativity, and stubborn fortitude—who have made Tanzania, volunteering, and the MAD organization so inspiring and special to me.

I’ll close this with a poem that serendipitously arrived in my email in-box a few days ago. I think it speaks with great beauty to what I’ve wanted to say:

To Be of Use

The people I love the best

jump into work head first

without dallying in the shallows

and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.

They seem to become natives of that element,

the black sleek heads of seals

bouncing like half-submerged balls.

I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,

who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,

who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,

who do what has to be done, again and again.

I want to be with people who submerge

in the task, who go into the fields to harvest

and work in a row and pass the bags along,

who are not parlor generals and field deserters

but move in a common rhythm

when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.

Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.

But the thing worth doing well done

has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.

Greek amphoras for wine or oil,

Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums

but you know they were made to be used.

The pitcher cries for water to carry

and a person for work that is real.

-Marge Piercy

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